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My Favourite Feeling

I was cleaning my photos when Mr.Odd suddenly mentioned some places where we could stay in Bali next year. I was surprised that he thought about it already, since it is still a long time for me lol. But I know he is an advance planner.

Last year, before our long stay in Bali, he read lots of books about living nomad and outdoor living. He prepared the outdoor tools, he changed his clothes to hikers' outfits with lighter weight, higher quality and better durability. He even weighed the clothes and all of our backpacks (learning from the climbers), to make sure that we only bring the necessities and that our baggage won't slow us or weighed us down.

And it made me smile, noticing how he pays attention and prioritize what's comfortable for me.

Love is weird and marriage could be tough, sometimes. If you ask me like few months ago, I would rather go alone cause we were arguing a lot about small things. Both of us are first-born, and although we are a good team, we are also very competitive individuals. When we argue, we don't blame each other, but we do compete on providing the best way and the most advanced arguments to back up our opinions lol. So it's like; it wasn't 'your fault', it's just 'your solution lame' or 'I'm smarter / cooler than you, follow my way' - while doing a winning dance. Lol. And trust me, that's a hell lot annoying when done in real. 🤣

Fast forward few months, and here we are; enjoying each others companion more than ever. We laughed hard a lot lately. We keep joking and teasing each other in a funny but slightly annoying ways. Well, in my defense, smart minds understand the sexiness of sarcasm. Lol.

And yes, I think one of my favourite feelings is when I laughed with him and realizing half way through how much I enjoy his existence, and how blessed we actually are. But try to ask me again in few month, maybe I'll change my answer again 🤣.

Oh btw, while cleaning my photos, we both got nostalgic when we saw the old photos, and we decided to make highlights of the years lol. My story might will be busy in the near future with some old memories that we wanna keep lol.

Cleaning old photos is a good way to evoke great memories.

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